We have a new rule here at the Dubb Spot: "No Feelings Allowed!" There will be no filter on the content of our comments. If someone is getting in their feelings, send them this pic:
So our first topic is going to stem from a question I received earlier today:
Why are women required to work hard, be independent, and have their stuff together but when they require the same things from a male, they are considered gold diggers?
So tonight's topic is going to be on expectations. What do you expect from the opposite sex in a relationship?
Women Do you still expect men to be the providers?
Men Do you still expect women to cook and clean?
Just to throw a lil monkey wrench in things. 2 follow up questions:
Women would you date a man who makes 50% less than you?
Men would you date a women who makes significantly more than you?
PS: Remeber the motto, You aint gotta lie to kick it...
I personally don't feel that women should be considered gold diggers for wanting a successful man. I would consider a gold digger as someone who wants a man for the materialistic things he can provide and not the things it takes to provide for his family! i.e. The girl that goes for the guy with the designer clothes and car with huge rims vs the guy that has a nice home and drives a Honda Civic.
ReplyDeleteAs for what I expect, I'm old fashioned. I expect the women to be a woman and the man be the man. Washing cars, mowing grass, taking out the trash, fixing small things around the house is for the man. Cooking, cleaning and washing clothes is for the woman.
I'm perfectly fine with my significant other making more money than me as long as she doesn't think that it makes her the man in the relationship. If she can't let me be the man then it will never work.
And thats all I've got to say about that!
Agreed and well said!!
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