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Thursday, October 13, 2011

Ghost Of P@$$! Past



There are a few newcomers to The Dubb Spot, I want to say welcome! Every Thursday night at 8PM Eastern Time, we have a different topic we speak on. These topics come directly from our fans and visitors. You can send us a topic by emailing us at dubbnote@gmail.com, or the honesty box on facebook of "dubbspot blogsite". We have been getting alot of topics so dont feel discouraged if we dont get to it right away.

Ok so this was another topic that was sent to the honesty box on Facebook of "dubbspot blogsite".

So if youre in a new relationship, can you still be friends, text, hang out with your ex!?!? 

Can you handle your partner being friends with their ex!?!?

Has this ever happened, and how did you deal!?!?

And please don't forget the motto, "you ain't gotta fake it in here"

P.S. You can post as anonymous....
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43 comments:

  1. Uncle POctober 13, 2011 at 5:14 PM

    Looks like I will be the first to jump this thing off.

    It is perfectly fine for you and your ex to remain friends while you are in a new relationship. If your ex is mature enough they could be the perfect person to help you out with issues in your new relationship because they know the "real" you and not that representative that you are displaying to your new partner.

    Of course this will take an understanding from both sides that you guy are only friends and that is it and that opens the door for an entirely different conversation.

    I would like to think I am still good friends with all of my ex's and the primary reason is that I didnt take advantage of them so we ended on good terms.

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  2. MeteOctober 13, 2011 at 5:24 PM

    all depends on da trust and da security in relationship... me personally dont really matter wit keepin contact but phone calls textin inboxin on da book...ughhh

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  3. BLKNWBOctober 13, 2011 at 5:42 PM

    I would have to say its cool to be friends or what not but do that ish on yo own time. I aint saying to be sneaky and hiding ish but if you callin, txtin, or facebookin ya ex...thats something I dont need to know. If im wit ya then I trust ya so it shouldnt be an issue! But if this mofo call at 4am to talk about a damn problem he havin...then WE gon have problems!

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  4. ~middleoffashionOctober 13, 2011 at 5:47 PM

    @blknwb I I agree with your ENTIRE statement...its cool to be friends ...talk, text etc.just keep it to yourself...if were together I trust u until it gets,out of control such as the example blknwb gave

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  5. MeteOctober 13, 2011 at 5:50 PM

    fuckk da if da nigga call at 4am and im sleep and been on da yack me and babi girl gnna have a talk!!!!

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  6. Uncle POctober 13, 2011 at 5:58 PM

    4AM is straight disrespect! It better be yo momma or Jesus himself calling and since Jesus dont have a phone if its not your momma or somebody dying that phone BETTER not ring at 4AM.

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  7. MeteOctober 13, 2011 at 6:03 PM

    u feel me p!!!! been drinkn, prlly jus got dun... and you all curld up wit ya girl and u gettn da good rest in afta all da work u dun put in and dis r&b ass nigga calln yo girl cryin and ish man hell na!!!

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  8. BLKNWBOctober 13, 2011 at 6:05 PM

    LOL...not Jesus himself Unk P?? LMAO

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  9. MeteOctober 13, 2011 at 6:08 PM

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  10. MeteOctober 13, 2011 at 6:10 PM

    i cant believe da nigga took it der ciid

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  11. Uncle POctober 13, 2011 at 6:14 PM

    aye im just saying it better be life or death for that phone to ring after 2am.

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  12. ~middleoffashionOctober 13, 2011 at 6:15 PM

    I mean honestly fellas after 11 :30- 12am thats boo lovin hrs so it dont even have to b 4am to be disrespect....

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  13. MeteOctober 13, 2011 at 6:16 PM

    see middle i like u ...u keep it real

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  14. starpowerOctober 13, 2011 at 6:19 PM

    im wit P on that Mete

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  15. Uncle POctober 13, 2011 at 6:21 PM

    @Middle most spots close at 2 so it may be friend that found themselves in a messed up situation but anything after 2:01am will get you CHECKED!

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  16. AnonymousOctober 13, 2011 at 6:23 PM

    I wouldnt have a problem with my man being "friendly" with his ex. Shooting the breeze or being cordial is cool. It would become a problem if she had a habit of calling or texting at crazy hours or if she wanted to hang out all the time. You cant make your ex a priority, their time is up.

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  17. BLKNWBOctober 13, 2011 at 6:24 PM

    oh yeah...u pushing it after 12! whats gon piss me off even more is if her mofo ass answer it! Then imma be heated!

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  18. MeteOctober 13, 2011 at 6:25 PM

    anonymous - 6:23pm (iraq time(

    u better chek dem no good @#@!!#@

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  19. ~middleoffashionOctober 13, 2011 at 6:28 PM

    @uncle P a friend calling at 2 is different then ur ex callin at 2 but I feel u so possiibly 2 on the wknds every now and then but not on no wed lol and not often but to keep it real I may have a small attitude after 12 on any day
    @mete I do what I can to be real lol

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  20. MeteOctober 13, 2011 at 6:30 PM

    ay star power da nigga p keepin it trill tonyte...

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  21. Uncle POctober 13, 2011 at 6:30 PM

    My bad I did go off on a tangent. Back to the ex's.

    I mean really it is up to the individual to place boundaries or limits on how and when they communicate with their ex. The ex can call but when the partner picks up or responds to text what is that really saying?

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  22. MeteOctober 13, 2011 at 6:31 PM

    middle ..

    so how many of yo old flames u be kallin textin sextn fb inboxin fb chatin wit??

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  23. ~middleoffashionOctober 13, 2011 at 6:49 PM

    @mete ummmm none really were all cool though cuz im pretty chill im closest to my ex from high school but the contact is limited on my part cuz u can be friends without talking everyday...but thats boy friends im speaking of flames are dif

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  24. ~middleoffashionOctober 13, 2011 at 6:50 PM

    Contd...flames are different flames burn out they are what my friends and I refer to as "whatevers" and I dont really care to keep in contact

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  25. BLKNWBOctober 13, 2011 at 7:08 PM

    Damn! She just called them "whatevers"! I hope I never become a part of the category for any of my old thangs!

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  26. BLKNWBOctober 13, 2011 at 7:08 PM

    that*

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  27. MeteOctober 13, 2011 at 7:08 PM

    ump i aint hatin babi girl !!!!

    but do yo man know bout da ole bfs and all da late nite textn and calln yall be doin when he at work?

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  28. MeteOctober 13, 2011 at 7:09 PM

    blk wit da way females be hatin me after its all said and dun i wuld gladly take that title cuz it be worse den da my brotha

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  29. BLKNWBOctober 13, 2011 at 7:16 PM

    oh yeah u def right about that my brother!

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  30. AnonymousOctober 13, 2011 at 7:17 PM

    HELL NO she cant be friends with that sucka! Know that nigga wanting that old thing back and I aint having that shit! She should be lucky I let her have male friends at all!!! BITCHES AINT SHIT! Thats why I keep mine on a leash

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  31. MeteOctober 13, 2011 at 7:19 PM

    omg!!!! ^^^

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  32. BLKNWBOctober 13, 2011 at 7:22 PM

    that brother sound like he done been thru some thangs. little do he know his ol lady prolly doing the most dirt!!! LMAO

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  33. MeteOctober 13, 2011 at 7:28 PM

    i mus say niggas be on da ish tho tryn to get one last ride on da roller coaster playin da "friend" role....

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  34. Uncle POctober 13, 2011 at 7:30 PM

    LOL! at Annoymous (7:17PM)

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  35. starpowerOctober 13, 2011 at 7:46 PM

    Got damn anonymous must done caught his old lady b4

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  36. AnonymousOctober 13, 2011 at 7:59 PM

    @Anonymous Why do we have to be bitches?? It sounds like your suffering from insecurity issues. Kills a relationship every time!!

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  37. AnonymousOctober 13, 2011 at 8:02 PM

    I put it like this, it's always cool and easy to say "I don't mind if they talk" but once u get in that situation where your partner is talking to them... Your mind starts to wonder. I feel like if my partner has issues, they come to me... Don't go rambling to them. Because once our relationship gets rocky, you run to them... And they get set up for the " I'm mad at my ex, just one tine sex"

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  38. BLKNWBOctober 13, 2011 at 8:19 PM

    Mete you right! I feel like a woman might keep a ex as just a friend but as for the male ex...he def trying to hit that ass one mo time in a #nw way! No matter how much of the "friend" role he play! First chance he get he gon snatch it up!

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  39. AnonymousOctober 18, 2011 at 7:05 PM

    Yea I sooo don't agree wit bein friends wit exes. They are exes for a reason. Now there are exceptions to the rule but generally I don't agree. I feel if u still need 2 communicate wit dat person then yall ain't ova eachotha && I don't want noooo parts of dat bullshyt!!

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  40. AnonymousOctober 19, 2011 at 10:53 PM

    I try to remain civilized with my ex's & "whatever's" but honestly, theres no way you can move on with the next relationship if you still txtn, inbox, & kickin it with your most recent ex. Gotta have some time & space to get over them and focus on the new person in ya life & you just cnt do that while tryna be "friendly", especially if yall were together for a good min. Old habits die hard....gotta make a clean break & get urself together before you can be friends.

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  41. AnonymousOctober 19, 2011 at 10:54 PM

    lmao @ blk not wantin to be in the whatever category

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  42. AnonymousOctober 21, 2011 at 7:02 PM

    @anonymous Oct 19th 10:53... what if you guys were friends before you started dating?

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  43. AnonymousOctober 23, 2011 at 11:33 AM

    man dats sum bullshyt exes cant be friends cause bitches sneaky and be tryna get that old thang back especially when they cant stand to see the nigga doing good wit his new boo thang

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