Got a question about this the other day in the "ask the Dubb" chat.
Should there be any privacy in a relationship? Is it okay to check your significant others messages and phone?
Have you ever checked someone's account or phone if so, What did you find?
Has someone ever looked into your account or phone and what did they find?
Is it insecurities or security on why people do this?
Does the ol' saying work in this situation: "Seek and you shall find"?
What's your input on this situation!?!?!?
Remember the motto: "you ain't gotta fake it in here"
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Had a young lady go through my Facebook account awhile... I laughed about it, but I feel if I did it to her... I wouldn't hear the end of it
ReplyDeleteNot with these grimey BITCHES!!!!
ReplyDeleteif it comes to the point in a relationship that you feel you should start checkin for stuff via fb and phone its time to move on... there is no trust there...
ReplyDeleteLol @ the video.... That's how it be sometime... Females get suspicious when u being good to em. smh
ReplyDeleteWell this is pretty simple...STAY OUT MY SHIT AND I WILL STAY OUT YOURS! That will make things so much easier...like my mans said in the video "the truth is what I tell you" if that aint good enough, then I aint good enough for you!
ReplyDeleteI actually done this one time via facebook. Shorty left her page up and i went all through it. I found nothing and it really let me know she could be trusted(to a certain extent). So either she is a good girl or just crazy sneeky. haha
ReplyDeleteI look all through they stuff... I don't trust nothing they say! My thing is, if I find out early it saves me in the long run
ReplyDeleteIf you go looking, you just might find. Relationships are built on trust, so if you don't have that then you nothing at all. For a grown man to do it though, that's a bit much unless you married/engaged. At that point you've cashed in and might need to go in repo mode.
ReplyDeleteYou hit the nail on the head Mr. Lee...that is def not a good look for a grown ass man that is secure with himself but when you married or engaged you might just go there! But always remember CURIOUSITY KILLED THE CAT and whether you find something or not it could be the start of a down hill spiral in the relationship.
ReplyDeletenigga please!!!! bitches aint shit
ReplyDeleteThe only thing I can say isle prepared for what u find.... I don't go looking for shit because when u look for shit it's guaranteed u will find it!! And half the time u already know if ur doubting someones loyalty u don't need to be with them if u can't trust them leave them.... Niggas ain't shit anyway they more than likelytryi g to hit anything walking... Ijs !!!
ReplyDeleteI have the motto of "guilty until proven innocent"... Trust is earned not given. In the beginning of any relationship with somebody, 9X out of 10 you're not the only one their talking too. That's why you put time in and try to prove yourself. So with that said, a few hints won't hurt...
ReplyDeleteit all about trust if yall cant trust each other yall aint meant to be
ReplyDeletei'm going to keep it short and sweet. If you go looking for something, you will find something. I dont have to prove anything cause I am grown and keep it 100 out the gate. I myself have never been that insecure in my womanhood to look through my partner's phone. You can call it confidence, arrogance or whatever but I know for a fact, you may have another name on the list but i'm always the first number you dial. I only associate myself with men who are secure as well. All that going through phones garbage is nothing but the most blatent display of #BITCHASSNESS. But just to take another POV, I would challenge peeps to go thru their partners phone and when you encounter something your not fond of that only means you obviously need to step it up. Obviously you are not getting the job done.
ReplyDeleteMiss HNIC I could not agree with you more. People often times search for things to make them feel better and to confirm what they already knew about a person. You knew good and damn well before you went thru the phone that you didn't trust your partner so what ever you find isn't new and the odds are if you find something you are not going to do anything with it but get mad and confront your partner. But you damn sure aint going NO WHERE cause you already knew the person wasn't shit! Now you just have a text/message/call to prove it. So do yourself a favor the next time you want to go and play DETECTIVE. Just don't do the shit because it is pointless and a waste of time and energy. And like Miss HNIC said next time you find something use that for motivation to STEP YOUR GAME UP! Because if you handling YOUR business THEY aint going no where!
ReplyDeleteNo trust. No relationship.
ReplyDeleteWhoever said bitches aint shit they absolutely right. They always got this lil fly ass nigga buzzing in they ear telling them what they would do and how they need to be treated! And they be eating that shit up, feeding into that bullshit! Nigga take yo thirsty ass somewhere wit that shit! I make sure I go thru my lady phone so I can find them fuck niggas and weed they ass out! If a nigga gon take my bitch, i'd rather it be a real ass nigga! And trust he gon have to take her cause I puts in work and no I aint just talking pipe!
ReplyDeleteLmao at that last comment...
ReplyDeleteomg at da nigga comment lol ahhhhhhhhhhh nigga kept it trillllllllllll!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteNiggas ain't shit but hoe's and trick's lick on these tit's and suck the clit!
ReplyDeletei aint even gonna go hard on this one just as Anonymous keeps sayin BITCHES aint shit, so are NIGGAS!! I will be the 1st one to admit that some of these broadz are givin the decent good ones a really bad rep, but i will defend the few dyin breed of GREAT women such as myself...but all in all as every one has said if you go looking, you need to be prepared to find what you lookin for... at the same time if one wasnt given a reason to suspect then you wldnt have a reason to look right?? some ppls game is just gettin too sloppy, game aint tight no more...people rather have QUANTIY rather than QUALITY...BUT HEY DO YOU!! I JUST SAY NO RESPECT - NO LOYALTY= NO TRUST OR LOVE SIMPLE MATHEMATICS...
ReplyDeleteEvery girl and they mama be claiming that the "last of a dying breed of good women" if that was the case it wouldnt be so many no good bitches out here today. And then you talking about someones game being sloppy when you shouldnt be worried about no game, just pleasing yo nigga! And like I said before, I always got a reason to go looking thru my bitch phone cause BITCHES AINT SHIT!!!!!
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ReplyDeleteI DO CLAIM IT I LIVE IT, PERIOD POINT BLANK, SORRY YOU HAVE BEEN FUKED OVER & NEVER RECOVERED FROM WHAT EVER BITCH DUN FUKED U IN THE ASS, BUT GET THE FUK OVER IT...SHIT YOU SOUNDING WORSE THAN A SCORNED BITCH!!! BITCHES AINT SHIT & NIGGAS EQUALLY AINT EITHER...IF YOU WANNA KEEP IT STRAIGHT 1000%!! AS FAR AS THE GAME ALL NIGGAS PLAY GAMES SO GUESS WHAT GOTTA BE SMARTER AND 10 STEPS AHEAD TO CHECK MATE THAT MOFO..FUK PLEASIN A NIGGA IF HE AINT DOIN THE SAME TO YOU!! ALSO IF THATS THE CASE THAT YOU GOTTA GO THRU YOUR BROADS PHONE CAUSE OF YOUR INSECURITY OR LACK OF TRUST THEN U AINT SHIT FOR DOING IT CAUSE BET IF SHE DID THE SAME YOU WLD HAVE THE AUDACITY TO FEEL A CERTAIN TYPE OF WAY ABOUT HER FEELIN SUSPECT BOUT YOU...CAPISH???!!
ReplyDeleteI second that shyt Kolumbian Kizz anonymous need to get rid of that bitch if she got him feel some type of way and if he dont trust his bitch with other niggas then hell he need to step his game up
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